If you choose to continue hanging out with him and you don’t get control of your feelings it will spoil your relationship eventually. If you can’t get it out of your head when you are around him than you may need to just let him drift out of your life. I am going to repeat that because I think it is important. Pursuing this in any way at all will most likely ruin your friendship. In the same way you couldn’t make yourself straight your friend can’t make himself gay. So based on some other comments I am making the assumption that this has to do with your friend you have a crush on. /r/QueerTransmen for our Queer Transmen./r/BisexualMen for the Bi Guys out there./r/ainbow for a taste of the whole spectrum./r/AskMen for more general male questions./r/GayMen for discussion of issues and experiences.We may not remove or ban someone over a report, but we do review them all. We rely on the report tool, so if there's an issue with a post or a comment flag it for us so someone sees it and can address it. A bit of sass is fine now and then, but don't be a dick. Try the search bar just in case your question has already been answered! Questions about sex are welcome, but this isn't a sub for gushingly detailed erotica. Try not to be overly graphic with your questions. If we did, surveys would likely outweigh actual posts. MOD NOTE: We do not allow studies or surveys in this little sub. If you have a question for gay men or men who have sex with men, ask away.